| There are some
tell-tale signals of a healthy relationship, according to Cloud
and Townsend, who authored the famous book Safe People. Firstly,
there is positive energy that flows between the two individuals.
They are forward-looking and never weary. The relationship flowers
into something which makes both the individuals be as God wanted
them to be. There is tremendous amount of mutual trust, faith
as well as vulnerability that is accepted between the two.
Christian dating – looking for beauty within
If you are a Christian single, you can experience healthy and
successful relationship if you are godly person yourself and seek
the Christian values in whatever you plan to do. You will be attracted
towards a similar person of a godly character because you can
identify with those traits your self. It is not unusual for a
Christian to get glamour-struck by the outward appearance – looks,
status, achievements, etc. But it is the inside of the person,
that we will live with and which is permanent – the rest are illusory.
Attachment with Detachment
But you must analyze and study another character, before you
get emotionally involved too deeply. According to Cloud and Townsend,
"When the attachment deepens, the reasoning weakens."
The scriptures also give us adequate warning, "Above all
else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life."
Proverbs 4:23.
Christian singles and dating
Finally, Christian singles need a plan for spiritual growth,
which should include making, knowing and loving God a priority
in your life. Then pray for a mate who is committed to the same
things. As you devote yourself to God and His word, and yield
to His Holy Spirit, your character will change. As your character
changes you will likely experience more relationship success.
God’s primary work is to help us conform to God’s own image. As
you seek Him, love Him and bestow trust in Him for you life, the
more He resides in you make you happy and content. And the more
you are happy, the larger chances are that you will find true
happiness in relationships also.
Finding Love and Happiness the Christian Dating Way
Our aim is to help Christians meet other like-minded Christians
by offering them the opportunity to develop meaningful, long-lasting
relationships. Through our Christian-specific service, you are
sure to find wonderful new Christian friends, excitement, and
even romance!
Single
Christians Want to Meet You Click
Here
|
