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May be you are simply tired of meeting the wrong men all the
time. No body seems to excite you anymore, to open up, to be friends.
Before you come to any conclusions about your luck, etc, go through
these 3 basic traits which men look for in a woman :
1. I Can Take Care of yourself
There is nothing quite as boring as being with a woman who constantly
needs baby-sitting. Of course that does not mean that you don’t
talk about it if you have had a particularly bad day at work.
But if you appear to be one of those who constantly needs someone,
and more specifically your new date to hold your hand, your man
will soon look for the nearest exit and run. On the contrary,
if you are independent both mentally and financially, able to
take your own decisions, have your own mind and a separate identity,
and yet is essentially feminine, you are the right woman to be
with.
2. Not just beauty, but brains too
Mere beauty without any intellectual back up is a great bore.
A woman who a man can communicate with intellectually is an all-time
turn on. The man is then no longer in complete control of the
situation, because you are constantly surprising him with your
intelligent unpredictability – leaving him wondering what is at
the back of your mind, if there is anything at all ! Such women
make extremely interesting partners and it is very difficult to
get bored with them. And there is always plenty of things to talk
– never a dull moment.
3. Mutual Respect Holds the Key
This is tough to find and tougher for it to last. But for an endearing
and enduring relationship, you have to have a lot of regard for
your date, admiration for his strengths and respect for his capabilities.
And the feeling should be mutual. This does not mean that you
obey his every word, on the contrary, you should be a patient
listener who cares for everything he does or says. A woman of
worth never insults or belittles her man in public or in front
of his family and never believes in melodrama.
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