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Craving for Love
I love you – the three magic words which keep the world go round.
Never seem to have enough of it in our lives. We look for it,
most of our waking hours – hoping, waiting or wishing it to guide
us to that one true “love” of our lives. Has it ever occurred
to you where and how does one exactly get it ?And how much of
it is “enough” ?
The meaning of “I Love You”
How many times have we said “I love You” to the person who have
just stepped into our lives at some magical moment ? And how many
times have we heard it being said to us ? Why do we say “I love
You “ – what do we mean by it really ? Do we say because it’s
the best thing to say in the absence of anything else to say or
is it that the words are music to the ears of that other person.
Love that binds or that sets you free !
Love is a flow of warm energy that bonds two people in a sharing
and common relationship, on a single platform. If a relationship
is a tiny sapling, love is the water of life which makes it grow
into a mammoth. So if love is that secret life force, life energy,
and its freely available in all our hearts, why are we so miserly
to give it ? Is it our fear of loss, feeling of insecurity or
vulnerability that holds us back ? Love exists in the deepest
part of all our souls, as a jewel or a lamp that needs to be kindled
for the energy to flow out. Love can not be something that holds
or pulls you down, it needs to set your soul free.
Difference between Love and Infatuation
This brings us to the critical question – are you prepared enough
to fall in love ? Can you let go of your ego, pride and insecurities,
and be ready just to give ?
And do we know the difference between true love and infatuation,
often called “calf love”. Think about it – do you really mean
to say what you say, when you confess to some one “I love You”.
If you appreciate the difference between the two concepts – it
makes your motives and actions clearer.
While you go on searching for that “true love” keep enjoying
the bits of sorrow and happiness which life throws up everyday.
And last but not least important, love someone for the way they
are, because you can’t change someone to be the way you want them
to be. Happy hunting !
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